Written by Farrah says
Ladies, ladies, ladies. We all have that one friend that always has man problems. immediately you either said her name out loud, or in your head lol. You are so tired of listening to her whine about every guy she meets, but you haven't told her the truth to spare her feelings.. it's not him it's "YOU".
Rather she takes her past experiences into the next relationship, or she is too accommodating thinking that the more she proves that she is wife material the more he will love her, she is the problem. Every man you meet is not the "ONE". Who doesn't know that? well maybe SHE doesn't. Or she keeps dating the same type of man. It's OK to have a type. but "loser" shouldn't be one. its a character flaw. Not just his, but yours as well. Now I'm speaking directly to the women who can't seem to find Mr. right. Stop looking! men are hunters by nature. If he wants you, he will find you, date you, wife you, and be everything you've ever imagined.
Truth be told, chances are you're missing out on Mr. Right trying to hold on to Mr. still. Mr. who you ask? Mr. still broke, still lying, still hustling, still cheating, or he has simply still not put a ring on it. uh-oh now I've said too much. But seriously someone needs to. I am not writing this to knock the next woman. How do i even know about such things? I've been there! most of us have. Us women are so powerful. Our strength is infinite, and our hearts are so pure and ready to love that we are our own worst enemy when it comes to love. We are healers. we think we can fix the world. truth is, when a man shows you who he is... believe him. He did not become who he is overnight. He has been that way his entire adult life. Do you really think a few years with you will set him straight? ha! News flash... It is not your job to raise him. If his parents didn't do a good job,well that's just unfortunate, but still not your problem.
There has to come a point in your life where you discover who you are first, and would rather be single than mistreated. We only get one life. one chance to experience all of the ways our decisions shape our world. Why not wait to experience the best life has to offer with the man God has designed for you? So it's time to focus on YOU! your career, your degree,your kids or whatever adds substance to your life until God sends you your husband. I promise you when God sends him, you will know it.
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